Friday, December 28, 2007
Play it again, Owen
Owen is very musical... he will often dance to the rhythm if we play music for him, and he likes to play his little piano at school. This Christmas vacation his musical talents have reached new heights. He sang along in church, singing "Glo-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-ria" along with us by saying "o-o-o" and shaking his head back and forth in time. He also enjoys playing Granny and Grandpa's piano. It ends up sounding rather "modern".
Monday, December 24, 2007
Happy Christmas Eve!
Sunday, December 16, 2007
In the past hour...
One of the most fascinating aspects of parenthood is that you know when it's the first time they roll over, or grab a toy, or sit up, or wave, or successfully swallow a Cheerio. You know how hard they've been working on those things, and you can share in the excitement when they finally get it. Owen is extremely focused and approaches new tasks with a clear determination to conquer them. Sometimes it can take months, and sometimes he gets frustrated, but when he gets it, something just clicks, and his delight is infectious. And then he'll spend days doing his new trick again and again and again.
The past hour has brought two major milestones. We tried to put Owen down for a nap, but after talking to his giraffe for a while, the sounds became less pleasant and it was clear he had no intention of sleeping, so we went in to get him, only to find him standing at the side of his crib! He had pulled himself up to that position - the first time he's ever done that unassisted. We brought him out to the living room to play, and within minutes he was crawling - not the wounded soldier crawl he's been doing for months, but a real, honest-to-goodness, one knee and then the other, forward crawl. Today is a big day!
The past hour has brought two major milestones. We tried to put Owen down for a nap, but after talking to his giraffe for a while, the sounds became less pleasant and it was clear he had no intention of sleeping, so we went in to get him, only to find him standing at the side of his crib! He had pulled himself up to that position - the first time he's ever done that unassisted. We brought him out to the living room to play, and within minutes he was crawling - not the wounded soldier crawl he's been doing for months, but a real, honest-to-goodness, one knee and then the other, forward crawl. Today is a big day!
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
All the leaves were brown...
... and red, yellow, and orange, but now they're gone. It's winter here in Boston now, with snow on the ground and ice on our car. We had a beautiful fall that stayed beautiful for longer than usual, it seemed. Owen learned to sit unassisted, feed himself (if messily), wave, and sign for food. He also discovered the joys of standing, which he wants to do ALL the time, and for which he still needs our help.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Outtakes
I love doing it, but I agonize over every blog post, trying to pick the very best pictures that tell a story and bring out the best of Owen's natural good looks. For every photo I post, there are probably a dozen that I wish I had room for. For the "all Owen all the time" photo bonanza, check out http://orglet.shutterfly.com. You DO NOT need a shutterfly account to view the photos. You DO NEED a password, which is "owen" (all lowercase, without the quotes). The photos are organized into albums by month, and I will post here when I add new albums. You can view slideshows or order prints if you'd like. Problems or questions? Email me or post a comment below. Enjoy!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Owen's favorite Youtube video
Owen wanted to share his favorite video with you. We had planned to only ever play him grownup music so he would share our musical tastes (and we wouldn't go crazy from having children's songs on continuous repeat). We've already lost that battle - there's something really appealing about marching dinosaurs, for a baby!
Monday, November 12, 2007
Fish
We had to leave Owen for the first time this weekend, to attend a scientific meeting. Nana came to look after him, and they had a great time together. We were so happy to see him when we came back yesterday, and he was happy to see us, too - waving and laughing and bouncing like crazy. He let us snuggle with him for much longer than he usually does. Since today was Veteran's Day and there was no daycare, we decided to have a family outing to celebrate our reunion. We chose the aquarium - especially fitting since Mike gave a talk at the meeting about the neural basis of turning behavior in fish. Owen loved it. He waved at all the fish.
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Houston, we have contact
We've been doing some sign language with Owen. It's all the rage - babies have the capacity for language and can control their hands before they can control their voices. We sign "milk", "more", "food", "mommy" and "daddy", and a few others. We've been watching closely to see if he'll sign back since he started waving, which is really the very first "sign". Tonight at dinner it became crystal clear that he has a sign for food. It's a little different from the one we taught him, which simply involves bunching up the fingertips on one hand and touching them to your mouth. He holds his two hands together and wildly rams them into and out of his mouth while yelling aaahhhhh - as if he were playing cowboys and Indians. We first noticed it at breakfast, but weren't sure if he was doing it intentionally. Then tonight at dinner, he did it when we put him in his high chair, and then whenever I paused while feeding him. And every time I signed food to him, he replied with his own special version - until he was full (it's obvious when he's full), at which point he stopped returning my sign.
(The picture is of Owen having some special quality time with his best friend - the baby that lives in the trashcan in his room. Yes, I know it's gross, but he REALLY loves it.)
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
8 months, 2000 hits
You: How old is Owen now?
Me: 8 months, today.
You: Is he crawling yet?
Me: No, not unless you count the "wounded soldier" crawl where he drags himself around with one (his right) elbow. He also gets up on all fours and revs back and forth, but as soon as he wants to move anywhere, he drops down on his belly for the wounded soldier bit. He's been rolling around like mad, and seeming "about to crawl," since late June.
You: Are you still nursing him?
Me: No - about two or three weeks ago he started absolutely refusing to nurse. I kept offering at every feeding, and gave him breastmilk in a bottle for a while, until it became clear that this is what they mean by "self-weaning." So now, after 17 months, I'm back to eating for one.
You: Does he have teeth yet?
Me: No, despite showing signs of teething (drooling, chomping on things) for months and months, no teeth yet! It turns out both Mike and I were late teethers (at 10 months), so it could still be a while.
You: What is his newest trick?
Me: Waving! Saturday morning he was sitting on his Nana's lap, and I waved to him, and to my utter surprise and amazement, he waved back! He's been doing it off and on ever since. So exciting!
You: How's the blogging going?
Me: We got our 2000th visit today. Thank you so much for making it a success!
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Cheerio!
After Owen's 6-month checkup in August, we found out that we had to start feeding him. OK, so I know that not long before that I posted a cute little picture of him eating some rice cereal. But that was kind of fun and casual - oh look, he's so cute gagging himself with a spoon. It wasn't REAL. At his 6-month appointment, though, it turned out that our hungry little bundle of joy was drinking twice as much milk as he needed to, and was more than ready for three meals a day. I asked the doctor what sorts of foods he should eat, like, which pureed vegetables and fruits he might enjoy. And she said, yes, all of those, and also, Cheerios, and... meat! It was a difficult moment. The thought of having to think about his nutritional requirements, and balancing his need for food and milk, made me almost miss the days of nursing him every three hours around the clock.
Finally, almost two months later, we have introduced rice cereal, oatmeal, carrots, sweet potatoes, green beans, peas, squash, apples, bananas, peaches, pears, Cheerios, barley, corn, and (today) beef. He strongly prefers food to milk, and it's a struggle to get him to drink the 20-24 oz of breastmilk or formula a day the doctor recommends. But he loves food, and he's not at all picky. He opens his mouth wide for every bite, and cries, or screams, if the bites don't come fast enough.
A few weeks ago we started giving him Cheerios. After observing him grabbing toys for months, we had thought of him as a rather dexterous baby... he could get just about any toy into his mouth. But the Cheerios were a whole new world. We learned, for example, that he has absolutely no idea that he has thumbs. I don't just mean opposable thumbs. I mean any thumbs at all. And there is no error correction - once he manages to pick up a single Cheerio, usually between his index and middle fingers, he gives that Cheerio one - and only one - chance to make it into his mouth. If it misses, which it usually does - sticking to his chin, or his cheek, or staying on his hand - it doesn't matter, he just dives right in, reaching for the next Cheerio (with his index and middle fingers, of course).
Finally, almost two months later, we have introduced rice cereal, oatmeal, carrots, sweet potatoes, green beans, peas, squash, apples, bananas, peaches, pears, Cheerios, barley, corn, and (today) beef. He strongly prefers food to milk, and it's a struggle to get him to drink the 20-24 oz of breastmilk or formula a day the doctor recommends. But he loves food, and he's not at all picky. He opens his mouth wide for every bite, and cries, or screams, if the bites don't come fast enough.
A few weeks ago we started giving him Cheerios. After observing him grabbing toys for months, we had thought of him as a rather dexterous baby... he could get just about any toy into his mouth. But the Cheerios were a whole new world. We learned, for example, that he has absolutely no idea that he has thumbs. I don't just mean opposable thumbs. I mean any thumbs at all. And there is no error correction - once he manages to pick up a single Cheerio, usually between his index and middle fingers, he gives that Cheerio one - and only one - chance to make it into his mouth. If it misses, which it usually does - sticking to his chin, or his cheek, or staying on his hand - it doesn't matter, he just dives right in, reaching for the next Cheerio (with his index and middle fingers, of course).
Friday, September 28, 2007
Bookworm
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Thursday, September 20, 2007
The (not so) lazy days of summer, Part II
Goodbye, one more time, to this summer of babyhood. Goodbye, daytrips to the beaches of Cape Ann, Cape Cod, and Westport. Goodbye, summer of the iPhone, the Baby Bjorn, commuting on the M2. Goodbye, David Beckham vs. the New England Revolution, Red Sox vs. Yankees in Fenway Park, Rhino League volleyball. Goodbye, trips to Vermont, Philadelphia and New Haven, visits with friends from New York, San Francisco, Michigan, and family from all over the world. Goodbye, swaddling, learning to roll over, babble, eat food, and sit up.
Hello, fall!
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Look Ma, no hands!
Owen tends to focus on one new thing a day. This morning, we practiced sitting up with minimal assistance for balance, and he did great. Then when I picked him up from school, they said he sat, again with minimal assistance, and played the piano (!) for about 20 minutes - an extraordinarily long time for him. Tonight when we came home, he did it again - with no assistance whatsoever - for several minutes... long enough for me to take his picture. And then he fell over and practiced crawling and smiling.
Saturday, September 8, 2007
The (not so) lazy days of summer
Saturday, September 1, 2007
The daily grind
Since I went back to work at the beginning of May, Owen and I have developed a routine. Nearly every day, I strap him into the baby Bjorn and head off to catch the Harvard shuttle bus that takes me from Cambridge to the medical school in Boston. On the bus Owen smiles at the other people, tries to grab their newspapers, and occasionally fusses, cries, or spits up on both of us. I get out at the Fenway stop, where his daycare is, to drop him off, and then I walk the rest of the way to lab. At the end of the day, I walk back to pick him up, walk back to catch the shuttle, and we ride home.
Now all that is changing, because he's going to a new daycare here in Cambridge starting Tuesday. And thank goodness, because lugging around a 16 pound baby plus a bag full of milk is pretty exhausting, especially in the heat of summer. But I've gotten used to sharing my commute with Owen, and I'm going to miss him. I'm going to miss seeing the faces of the throngs of Japanese tourists light up as we pass them in Harvard Yard every morning. I'm going to miss the mix of delight and annoyance that he causes on the bus when he tries to eat other commuters' reading material, or screams because we stop for too long at a red light. And I'm already nostalgic for this precious time when he is still so little that I can carry him around with me everywhere I go.
The photo is from May, when he was still small enough to ride in the baby Bjorn facing me. Now he faces out, to see the world.
Monday, August 20, 2007
Owen the hooligan
Thursday, August 16, 2007
A Dinosaur Hunt in 3 Acts, by Owen
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Grandchildren on your knee...
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Hungry, hungry hippo
Owen has started "eating" "solid" food. It's quite an ordeal for all involved. We mix some rice cereal or oatmeal with milk, put him in his bumbo chair (a chair that helps babies sit before they can do it alone) wearing a bib and as little else as possible, and then try to get some of the food in his mouth. For the first several attempts he refused to cooperate, taking the opportunity to close his lips - tight - and blow bubbles. Then, about halfway through the fifth or sixth session, he suddenly "got it" and started opening his mouth wide for each bite and fussing if they didn't come fast enough (which for him was continuously). Now he tries to help, which means that in order to get any food at all to its designated target we have to hold down his arms for each bite. We tried giving him a spoon to hold, but he keeps gagging himself with it.
A few interesting traits have emerged along with this developmental milestone. The first is that we think he is right handed - he almost always uses his right hand to grab the spoon and gag himself, no matter how we present it to him. The other is that he has been showing huge interest in whatever we eat, and especially, drink. I used to almost always drink a glass of water while nursing him (I swear there's something hormonal about it that makes you thirsty) but now I can't, because he gets so jealous.
A few interesting traits have emerged along with this developmental milestone. The first is that we think he is right handed - he almost always uses his right hand to grab the spoon and gag himself, no matter how we present it to him. The other is that he has been showing huge interest in whatever we eat, and especially, drink. I used to almost always drink a glass of water while nursing him (I swear there's something hormonal about it that makes you thirsty) but now I can't, because he gets so jealous.
Friday, August 3, 2007
The Orglet has launched!
When we first found out I was pregnant, we called the baby-to-be "baby Orgey", a clever take on our two last names (don't you think?) But then the friend and faithful bloglet reader known as bowleserised coined the term "Orglet" and we adopted it instantly. A few weeks ago we hosted a welcome party for Owen and called it (what else?) an "Orglet launch" party. Highlights included a beautiful toast from Owen's godparents, Robin and Alan, a dinosaur cake, and a ceremonial event we borrowed from the film "The Namesake". We presented Owen with a tray of objects representing various potential careers, from policeman to political activist, cellular neuroscientist to systems neuroscientist, chess player to gambler... you get the idea. And alas, he chose...
... the BNC cable! (Representing systems neuroscience.) Perhaps not a surprise. But, at least we tried - no one can say we didn't give him a choice!
It was quite a party. Just ask Owen and Meredith:
... the BNC cable! (Representing systems neuroscience.) Perhaps not a surprise. But, at least we tried - no one can say we didn't give him a choice!
It was quite a party. Just ask Owen and Meredith:
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Great expectations
Believe it or not, we had our first parent-teacher conference last week at Owen's daycare. He did really well on his first report card. They said his special strengths were rolling over, smiling, and grabbing toys. He also babbles a lot and likes to be "cuddle on his teacher arms". He screams louder than any of the other babies. Areas for improvement include holding his own bottle. It's all about setting your expectations, isn't it?
Thursday, July 19, 2007
Keep on movin'
Owen has a constant desire to move. The urge is so strong that it keeps him from sleeping. He certainly won't sleep on his back, despite all the evidence that it prevents SIDS. We're lucky if we can get him to stop moving long enough to fall asleep in any position. Even then, most nights we are awakened at least once by a desperate plea to rescue some combination of his limbs from the side of the crib. During the day he is so active that we can no longer put him down and assume that he'll stay where we leave him. He's trying so hard to crawl - pushing and kicking and grunting - but for now he has to settle for rolling over and over and over as his main form of transportation. He has a new alphabet playmat to soften the blow when he throws his head against the floor.
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Beach boy
We went to the beach this weekend. Owen had a great time playing with the beach ball, and also his sun hat and swimming trunks. (Mommy and Daddy accidentally left his real toys in the car, but fortunately he's not too picky about that yet.) It was cloudy and chilly, but being half English he didn't seem to mind at all.
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Babies are insane
Behavior that would be considered extremely bizarre in adults is somehow cute in babies. Like, blowing bubbles and saying buh buh buh for hours at a time, just because you can. Or writhing around on the floor with your entire body wrapped around a stuffed inchworm. Or making repeated attempts to roll from your back to your front... only to find yourself on your tummy, which you hate. Or trying to get your entire fist in your mouth, instead of your lunch. Every single time.
Sunday, June 17, 2007
Happy Father's Day!
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